First let me start with the following:
"A dilemma (Greek δί-λημμα "double proposition") is a problem offering two solutions or possibilities, in particular two solutions neither of which is acceptable.
Let's first look at my problem. My problem is: I need a job and I prefer it to be anywhere else then Belgium. The 2 possible solutions are:
1: Dive instructor in Mauritius
2: Ski instructor in Whistler (Canada)
now what is the problem, if ...